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Hypnotherapy for Sexual Dysfunction

Hypnotherapy can be beneficial for addressing sexual issues as it can help individuals overcome psychological barriers, reduce anxiety, enhance self-esteem, and improve communication and intimacy, leading to a healthier and more satisfying sexual life.

Why Hypnotherapy for Sexual Dysfunction?

Sounds so medical, doesn’t it? Sexual Dysfunction(SD). The reality is many of us suffer from some kind of emotional charged Sexual Dysfunction and it refers to a problem occurring during any phase of the sexual response cycle that prevents the individual or couple from experiencing satisfaction from the sexual activity. The sexual response cycle traditionally includes excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution.

In the first instance, ALWAYS consult your doctor/physician, this is to ensure any physiological reason for the dysfunction is ruled out. Once this is done then we can look at the psychological/emotional reasons for the problem.

According to the NHS, it is estimated that one in 10 men and almost 50% of women are affected by a sexual problem. Sexual difficulties can occur early in an individual’s life, develop suddenly after a previously satisfying sex life or develop gradually.

Common problems in men include:

  • Erectile dysfunction (difficulty getting/keeping an erection)
  • Premature ejaculation (reaching orgasm too quickly)
  • Delayed or inhibited ejaculation (reaching orgasm too slowly or not at all)
  • Low libido (reduced interest in sex)

Common Problems in women include:

  • Low sexual desire. This most common of female sexual dysfunctions involves a lack of sexual interest and willingness to be sexual.
  • Sexual arousal disorder. Your desire for sex might be intact, but you have difficulty with arousal or are unable to become aroused or maintain arousal during sexual activity.
  • Orgasmic disorder. You have persistent or recurrent difficulty in achieving orgasm after sufficient sexual arousal and ongoing stimulation.
  • Sexual pain disorder. You have pain associated with sexual stimulation or vaginal contact.

Emotional/Psychological causes might include:

  • Concern about sexual performance
  • Marital or relationship problems
  • Depression, feelings of guilt
  • Effects of past sexual trauma
  • Work-related stress and anxiety

How can I help?

The most effective way of dealing with SD is to get to the cause of it. The techniques I have can bring about a profound change in a short period of time. I use approaches from EMDR, NLP, hypnosis and psychosensory techniques. The goal is to change limiting thoughts and behaviors in order for you to achieve the desired outcome you deserve!

Hypnotherapy for sexual issues aims to access your subconscious and change the thought patterns and behaviors that are causing the problem. To promote positive change, relaxation, and self-confidence, hypnotherapy uses the power of suggestion. I will tailor the suggestions to you, to help you learn what triggers the issue. Hypnotherapy can help you learn how to reduce stress and anxiety and rebuild an enjoyable sex life, without worry.

Hypnotherapy can help by removing any mental pressure that surrounds intercourse and performance anxiety. Techniques will help you start to trust your body and ignore the negative voice in your head, replacing it with a more positive, controlled state of mind.

Who Should do it?

Hypnotherapy can be a powerful tool for addressing sexual issues as it allows individuals to explore and resolve subconscious blocks, enhance self-esteem, and promote positive changes in sexual behavior and attitudes, leading to a healthier and more satisfying sexual life. Do you:

What our clients say


For years I’ve suffered with excess sweating when in any situation where the focus is on me or I’m nervous, like giving a presentation or being around new people. This was really affecting my job as my job involved a lot of presentations and meeting new people! My mum has had hypnosis before so I thought I would give it a try. I don’t know how Paul did it but after one session I felt more confident and was able to lead a normal life without excess sweating, he even stuck my hand to my leg which I thought was brilliant!



I’ve suffered total hair loss through alopecia, I’ve had no more than three hairs on my body at one point since it began three years ago . . .
Paul had hair growing back on my head and face within 2 days of our first session… Three sessions and four weeks later. I’ve got at least a hundred fine white hairs on my head and around 30 scattered elsewhere. It seems to be growing again . .
I also feel STRONGER and BETTER . . . I can never thank Paul enough



Hi Paul, I hope you’re keeping well. I just wanted to get in touch to let you know that following on from the successes during your alopecia hypnotherapy trial, my hair continued to grow and has now fully recovered. For the first time in 11 years I have my curls back and I look like me again! My wigs are back in their box and I honestly can’t thank you enough for setting me on the path to getting all of this fixed. All the best.



After nearly thirty years of experiencing very bad panic attacks when driving or travelling anywhere out of my comfort zone. A friend suggested I contact Paul and see if there was anything that he could possibly do to help.
Amazingly after just two sessions of treatment, being a combination of hypnosis and tapping techniques, I have been able to drive much further distances than I ever imagined possible. It has in many ways been life changing and I now realise how debilitating my anxiety has been.
Thank you Paul for all your help


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What you will achieve

We’ll help you to enter a state of relaxation where we can identify and address your beliefs and triggers, leading to new, positive responses.

Enhanced Communication

Hypnotherapy can help individuals effectively communicate their desires and concerns, enhancing intimacy and mutual understanding in relationships

Overcoming Performance Anxiety

Through hypnotherapy, one can overcome anxieties related to sexual performance, fostering a healthier and more enjoyable sexual experience

Building Confidence

Hypnotherapy can improve self-esteem and body image, leading to a more fulfilling and satisfying sexual life

Addressing Past Trauma

Hypnotherapy can be an effective tool to address and heal from past sexual trauma, fostering a safe and healthy sexual experience

Resolving Sexual Dysfunctions

Hypnotherapy can help address specific sexual dysfunctions like erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation in men, and arousal or orgasmic disorders in women

Enhancing Sexual Satisfaction

Through hypnotherapy, individuals can achieve greater emotional and physical satisfaction in their sexual lives, improving overall wellbeing and relationship quality

Commonly Asked Questions about Hypnotherapy

Hypnotherapy is a therapeutic approach that utilizes hypnosis to access the subconscious mind, allowing for positive changes in thoughts, behaviors, and emotions. It is a safe and effective method of addressing various issues and achieving personal growth.

Yes, hypnotherapy is a safe practice when conducted by a trained and certified hypnotherapist. Clients are always in control and cannot be made to do anything against their will. The therapist guides the client into a relaxed state where positive suggestions and therapy can take place.

Hypnotherapy can help with a wide range of issues, including addiction, anxiety, weight management, smoking cessation, phobias, and improving confidence or motivation. It can also be used for relaxation, stress management, and enhancing performance in various areas of life.

The duration of a hypnotherapy session can vary depending on the therapist and the specific needs of the client. Typically, sessions range from 60 to 90 minutes, although some might be shorter or longer. It is important to discuss session length and frequency with your hypnotherapist.

The number of sessions required will depend on the nature of the issue being addressed, the individual client, and their goals. Some clients may see positive results in just a few sessions, while others might benefit from ongoing therapy. Your hypnotherapist will work with you to create a personalized treatment plan.

Yes, almost everyone can be hypnotized to some degree. It is a natural state of mind that we enter multiple times a day, like when we daydream or become engrossed in a book or movie. However, the level of depth achieved during hypnotherapy may vary from person to person

During hypnosis, clients typically experience a deep state of relaxation and/or heightened focus. It is often described as a pleasant and calm sensation, similar to being absorbed in a daydream or meditative state. Clients remain aware of their surroundings and are always in control of their thoughts and actions.

Yes, it is common for clients to remember the majority, if not all, of what happens during a hypnotherapy session. While the experience may feel dream-like, hypnosis is not a state of unconsciousness. You will be able to recall the suggestions and insights provided by the therapist.

No, you do not need to believe in hypnosis for it to be effective. Hypnotherapy can benefit individuals regardless of their beliefs or skepticism. The therapy is grounded in scientific principles and works by accessing the subconscious mind to make positive changes.

When choosing a hypnotherapist, it is important to consider their qualifications, experience, and areas of expertise. Look for certifications from reputable hypnosis organizations and ask about their training and background. Additionally, a good fit between you and the therapist is crucial, so trust your instincts and feel comfortable in their presence.

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